Tuesday

A Celebration {Giveaway}

I'm an average mom. I yell too much and don't listen enough. I mess up. Daily.

My kids are normal too. They can be delightful one minute and talking back or writhing on the floor in a tantrum the very next.

[If you can't relate to the above confessions, you are probably above average and might want to skip this post.]

And we probably don't love each other any more than you and your kids.

But, that doesn't mean I'm not going to brag. (See first sentence about being an average mom: I can't help myself).

Because this is the happy face of a Mom who hasn't seen her kids in 10 days (or had a shower in 30+ hours):


Returning from Africa was a celebration!


We did it: my family (with the help of grandparents and friends) championed the cause without complaint and only offered me unconditional love and support while I was away. I couldn't have done it without them.


Life is full of ups and downs. The good and bad mark our journeys. But it's the celebrations we remember. Whether it's overcoming fear (my first Goodnites post) or celebrating victories, we are in this together.

Speaking of celebrations, someone will be rejoicing with a $2500 victory by winning the Bedtime Theater Writing Contest! Just submit your 275 word chapter and it could be you!


Oh, and a lucky reader, will have cause to celebrate when they win what I'm giving away TODAY:

  • 2GB Silver iPod Shuffle
  • Logitech Speakers
  • $25 iTunes Gift Card
  • Brookstone Cuddle Blanket
  • Patagonia Bag
A prize package worth approximately $175!!!!!!

To enter, please leave a comment that might help a child overcome adversity (like "have faith", "don't give up!' etc) Who knows, you might even come up with an idea for the next chapter in Iggy's Great Adventure at the Bedtime Theater.

364 comments:

«Oldest   ‹Older   201 – 364 of 364   Newer›   Newest»
Jordan said...

I believe in you...

Hannah Sparks said...

God wants you to do YOUR best, not comparing to someone else. He created you special and just the way he intended you to be.

Maddie said...

Even though it may feel like it sometimes, you are NEVER alone. God is always with you.

Mama Kat said...

reinforcement. Its a must in this house. With 4 kids ranging from 11-2 we have a lot of reinforcment around here!! Adversity comes when one does not belive in themselves. This is where I come in (for now) as the reinforcer. IN fact just the other day when my son was racing his cousin across the park (and lost) he said "thats ok, I might not be the best runner, but I am the best hugger" then promply hugged his cousin. Showing them that can are good at some things, and not everything helps them over come adversity. Me just being there to remind them of what they are good at encourges them at the same time.

Lynne said...

Remember who you are. A child of God.

I'm Fluffy! said...

Be still, and know that I am God...

Jen said...

I believe in you!

J said...

Growing up my life was, challenging. But I wouldn't trade it now. There is nothing like truly appreciating the little things in life, like a hot shower and a dishwasher!

Amy Lynn said...

Have faith, and you will grow!

Jennifer said...

God is in control. Nothing surprises Him!

kofoeds5 said...

Keep the faith, believe, endure, strive, live, love and hope. All things are possible! Never give in and never give up.

I am the mom of a child who has a primary immune system deficiency and I teach him each day that he can accomplish anything that he wants to! Because of his hardships, he will be a stronger, kinder, more empathetic person and I am grateful for that!

Amber said...

"I can do al things through Christ who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13)

Unknown said...

You were created by God for a purpose, don't let anyone or anything tell you different.

Jenny said...

There is a light at the end of this tunnel, just stay focused on the Father and he'll see you through to the other side. God is with you every step of the way!




jennybenny19 (at) yahoo (dot) com

Nhmommaof5 said...

God is bigger than anything you or I can do or say
or believe.

Anonymous said...

"Is anything too hard for God?!"
Brenna

Sally said...

You are the answer to all of your problems. If you don't like it, change it. If you like it, keep getting better. YOU are the answer.

Web Designz by Kristi said...

You can do and be anything that you put your mind to. Just be who you are and do what you can to acheive it!

Pam Griffis said...

I realized early on that success was tied to not giving up. If you simply didn't give up, you would outlast the people who came in on the bus with you. Harrison Ford

Jenn @ Beautiful Calling said...

Successful people are those who keep going when others quit.

The first response to anything should be to pray! Little ones are never too young to learn that.

jennifer@beautifulcalling.ca

SM Anderson said...

I am excited to see everyone else's responses. We are struggling with this as our 1st child is in 1st grade and now has homework. He is a perfectionist (not a good quality to pass on to your child) and gives up easily when he gets something wrong. We have been working on this since September. I just continue to tell him that he can do it. We don't expect him to be perfect or get everything right. We just expect him to do his best. The tears are so hard to see when he gets frustrated with himself. So...looking for some more good reponses from the list of comments.

Elizabeth said...

Give it to God!!

Doug said...

When things are bad ... remember: There are people out there pulling for you ... who love you for WHO YOU ARE.

Doug said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Doug said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Meggs and Snow said...

Find strength in yourself and believe...

Not your average mom of 4 said...

When we lean on others they may bend but God is a rock... Always lean on him, let him be your crutch through everything. Today your problem may been like a HUGE mountain but when you conquer it, you will look down and realize it was so small that you are almost standing flat. Always look for that silver lining because there is beauty in any situation. To the world you are just somebody, but to somebody you are the WORLD. You are beautiful and special because everything God created he said "was good" he didnt make junk :)

The Clines said...

Believe in yourself!

The Howe Family said...

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid for the Lord your God goes with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9

Linda C said...

Just remember that you are never alone in these times. God is thinking about you ALL of the time and LOVES you more that you can imagine! He is on YOUR side and by your side. And Mommy and Daddy are here, too!

Anonymous said...

Those pictures of your return are priceless, as are your words. High five to your ordinary family doing extraordinary things through and with God.

To help a child overcome adversity: You have a friend in Jesus.

Jenni said...

stepping back and taking a deep breath has always helped me to work through issues .... it's a good first start, anyway.

Amy said...

"You won't even remember this in a few years" :)

Chad said...

Hope can be found in the lowest valley and the highest mountain; the darkest night and the brightest day. It can be found no matter what our situation in life, because Jesus can be found no matter what we're going through or where we are. He has promised to never leave us nor forsake us and we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us!

Kimberly said...

I can do ALL things through Christ who gives me strength!! Just remember that you are a child of the King!!

Susan said...

Keep trying! Don't give up!

Heidi said...

Don't tell God how big your mountain is, tell the mountain how big your God is!

Melissa said...

Try a smile!

Maggie M.- maggiebugjuice@aol.com said...

You can do anything if you just put your mind to it!
Thank you!
Maggie M.

Jen A.- gin1379@aol.com said...

You can do it, I am with you every step of the way!

Thanks,
Jen A.

Leroy M.- lhmisme@aol.com said...

Never give up!

Thank you,
Leroy M.

elizabeth said...

You don't always get what you want -- but you'll find sometimes: you get what you NEED! (Okay, it is a Rolling Stones lyric -- but God works through all things ;-))

God Love ya -- can't wait to read all about your faith journey to Africa! (I am behind on all my blogs!)

heidig said...

In my house we say, "this too shall pass".

Liberty said...

I can do all things - EVEN overCOME fear - thru Christ who strengthens me.

OR God is the MOST powerful superhero. Period.

Anonymous said...

God hears all our prayers!!

Karis

Unknown said...

Jesus, loves you baby!

Kara said...

Trust in the God who defeated death, hell, and the grave. Never forget that He alone is the author and the FINISHER of our faith.

No Greater Gift Mom said...

"Love Them Like Jesus"- we say this daily to our girls and have it posted many places in our home. Not only "them" as in our family and friends but "them" as in orphans, strangers, everyone. God created each of us in HIS imagine- "cool" or not. We are all perfect!

Peter and Nancy said...

Always remember Whose you are . . . and "the (insert family name here) Smiths try and try until they get the job done!"
Nancy

Jennifer said...

My grandpa used to always say "Can't who never tried, never couldn". Now you have to say that with a southern drawn to appreciate it fully.

DianneM said...

I may be way off base with this phrase, but the one we use a lot is:
"Different families have different rules."

When he gets ridiculed for not being able to do or say something I gently remind him of that phrase!

Michelle said...

Believe you can.

Sherri said...

Just keep swimming!

Where hope grows, miracles blossom.

Anonymous said...

Don't give up, God is with you and will sheild you on all sides, ground your fee, and lift your head high (Psalm 3:3 MSG).

Johnlyn said...

My son used to get so upset when he'd do something wrong. My response was this you need to say to yourself "I made a mistake, but I can fix it."

By fixing it, he would apologize to the person and ask God for forgiveness.

He was always so much happier after that.

Carey said...

Keep on, keeping on! You're doing great!!

Melissa G said...

Let go and let God!

Emilee said...

"You can do hard things"

PamO said...

I like what Veggie Tales has to say on the matter...
"God made you special and He loves you very much!"

Blessings,
Pam

Sue D said...

God made you special!

stacy said...

Every day is a new beginning.

Rachel said...

Just keep swimming!

The Tylers said...

My mom used to put vinyl clings on our bathroom mirror with encouraging sayings. One of them that I remember and was special to me was, "I'm glad you're my kid!".

Amy@TheCircusMcGurkus.blogspot.com said...

Try again!

Amy@TheCircusMcGurkus.blogspot.com said...

Try again!

Sabrena said...

You can do it! I believe in you!

Kar said...

We remind our kids that excellence does not equal perfection. It's simply doing the very best you can with what God has given you.

Lisa said...

"I LOVE you unconditionally"

kim said...

Believe in yourself - I know I do! What a great giveaway - pick me :)

Nichole said...

In our family we always say

"You've got this!"

and

"If He leads you to it, He will lead you through it"

Wade's World said...

You'll never get it if you never try!

Laura said...

i'm not sure it's quotable, but we say it over and over again at our house when someone's having trouble: "try again... or ask for help".

Jabber Jaws said...

Don't worry about where you are coming from - I've got your back! Keep on moving ahead and I promise to catch up when you need me in front too.

Anonymous said...

This too shall pass.

Tess said...

It is never too late to start fresh!

Amy said...

Nothing is impossible with God. I know its already been posted, but its a good thing to memorize. :)

Joy said...

Jesus will give you the strength!

Kendra said...

Don't let anyone tell you that you can't!

Chrissy said...

Love God, Love people.

smdrm said...

When God closes a door, he opens a window.

kg4rmt at arrl dot net

Rebecca said...

Cry out and believe someone is listening.

Becky
rahastings@juno.com

Kathy said...

Be strong, and take courage. Do not fear or be afraid.

dixi + russ said...

'people who never make mistakes, have never tried anything new.'

try new things, knowing you might not get it right the first time. discovery comes after many many mistakes.

Anonymous said...

There is nothing new under the sun...just look in the photo album. I can always find a picture of one of our family at a similar age going through the same thing. The Bible shows us that our history goes way back and He was always there for His children, and he will be there for you, too! Someday you can show your kids a picture of how you feel now and make them feel better!

Tiffany said...

EVERYTHING is possible to he or she who BELIEVES.

Tina G. said...

Be courageous in the Lord. We don't always have the ability to muster the courage ourselves, but if you rely on God...it will be there.

QuatroMama said...

Don't Stop BEEE LEAVIN'!

xoxo
Jen

The Mac's House said...

I am so taken by your blog. It is down right honest, compassionate and inspiring.

I am the mother of a 22.5 year old daughter and a Nana to a 22 month old granddaughter.

I have found in our house that we strive to continue to work on the following:

confidence in ones self
positive thoughts
loving unconditionally (this has proven to be the one that is always steadfast during our last two years of emotional issues)
regaining TRUST

I often giggle when I see your title of the blog as I'm sure that title can fit most families....

No matter what we are bound together as a family, good, bad, whatever anyone thinks.

You are a great inspiration.
Thank you!

Jenny said...

"I can do hard things."

RLR said...

We ask our kids to, "Show me how to ...." They are encouraged by the feeling that Mom and Dad are certain of their success. Of course, there are times when they need a, "You can do it!" - and we have plenty of those to hand out, too.

Anonymous said...

I always tell my son/family "Wow, that was a rough 20 minutes!" or "That was a bad hour!" It kind of puts a close to the rough patch and we have a new hour or 20 minutes etc! It really works around here and now my husband says it too!

amanda@ Shawnmckee.net

Anonymous said...

I always tell my son/family "Wow, that was a rough 20 minutes!" or "That was a bad hour!" It kind of puts a close to the rough patch and we have a new hour or 20 minutes etc! It really works around here and now my husband says it too!

amanda@ Shawnmckee.net

Nicole @Team Pipkin said...

my 4yo daughter usually always counts on & plays w/God. when most kids make up an imaginary friend. when i hear her talking to herself or playing by herself, i'll ask who she is talking to and she says, "GOD, he's always w/me". Last night she was playing "Dancing With The Stars" w/GOD, he was her dance partner. totally cute.

nicolepipkin@gmail.com

Heather said...

God promises to never leave us and He is our Refuge and our Rock. He tucks us under His wings and no one can ever take us out of His hands.

Recently we've been watching a live barn owl webcam and it's been amazing to watch the owl mommy "Molly" cuddle her eggs and now one owlet "Max" under her wings. Such a beautiful picture of God's faithfulness to us!

Heather
http://lilyofthefield-heather.blogspot.com

Ashley Pichea [PicheaPlace.com] said...

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in God"

Kaitlin L. said...

One thing that my parents always told us:

We still love.
God still loves you.
And the sun will still come up in the morning!

Anonymous said...

God isn't impressed by our abilities nor is He hindered by our disabilities, He is simply seeking our availability. It's a quote, but I don't know who said it.

Jessica said...

Believe in yourself! :)

Stonefox said...

Press on!

Keli said...

What my daddy always told me:

"Just do your best"

You'll always be happy with that because you know you gave it your all.

Sarah said...

Do the right thing and I will ALWAYS be proud of you...

:)

Anonymous said...

No matter what is happening in your life, you can always turn to the Lord and to us (your parents) for comfort and guidance.

valerierinman (at) msn (dot) com

the Schmidts said...

great giveaway!! (would really come in handy on my flights for an upcoming missions trip to africa...)

I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me. Phil 4:13

Amy @ Living Locurto said...

You can be anyone you want to be!

lovethe48 said...

Every Saint has a past, every Sinner has a future!

Mary B said...

Faith in God and knowing HE can help you in All things! We try and tell them that life is not perfect, that there will be hard times and share the times we have been through.

Bombtastic Belle said...

Do the best you can, and have no regrets

deanna said...

God loves you and has a plan for you, trust him and pray a lot!

UnfinishedMom said...

When you are afraid... trust in God.

Cindy said...

I have learned that one of a man's greatest needs is that of honor. As I try to meet that need for my husband I also try to meet it for the two youngest men in my life and that is my two young sons. I tell them often how proud I am of them and do not laugh or ridicule them when they fail at something. I also never complain about them to other moms, or family members.

And although I don't have any girls, I would use the same philosophy with them. Women need security so I would encourage Daddy to tell her how precious and special she is and how she will always have her mommy and daddy to tell her how much they love her. I believe that filling these needs even as children can help them to deal with adversities in their lives. Besides, have you ever met a child that didn't want to be told how proud you were of them or how special they are? I never have.

Heather said...

Live, Laugh, Love!

Unknown said...

What a sweet homecoming!

My advice would be "Be yourself no matter what."

Rose | RoseBakes.com said...

Never say never...you can do anything you put your mind to!

Messy and Wonderful said...

He won't let you down.

K said...

I'm a runner, and I'm blessed that my kids have seen me finish some of my biggest races, including my first marathon, which I ran in pouring rain and driving wind. In difficulty I remind them that sometimes it does rain on your biggest race, things don't always turn out the way you dreamed, and our God sometimes gives us tough situations. But He doesn't ask that we win every race, only that we trust Him and do our best. And His rewards are better than some dinky medal. (I tell myself this too.)

Karina

Anonymous said...

You are an ameriCAN not an ameriCANT

Cyndee Esquibel

Anonymous said...

I can do all things through Christ Jesus who strengthens me

Carol said...

When I'm facing difficult tasks, I think of Larry The Cable Guy's saying, "Get er done". That's what I tell myself when I'm trail running in the mountains and I have to run up the mountain. It makes me laugh and helps me get through it!
What a great giveaway!!!

heyruthie said...

"Do you want to pray about it together right now?"

Anonymous said...

"Daddy always loves you, Mommy always loves you, Jesus always loves you." - MKWold

BusyMom said...

You are my little boy/girl, I have faith that you can conquer this. The only way to find out is to try, the only way to learn is to try.

The Googeg's said...

From Ephesians 6:

stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Deb

Mindy said...

Awesome giveaway :)

God's Love Never Fails!!

Julie From Inmates said...

Let Go! And Let God!

Heidi said...

You are LOVED!!

Vicki said...

No, you won't do everything perfectly--no one does. Christ was the only perfect one to walk the earth. So, be persistent, and trust that God will fill in the gaps!

Blommom said...

Not exactly encouragement, but my grandfather always told us, "If you can't stand it, suffer." He taught us that life isn't always easy, but it doesn't do any good to complain about our circumstances.

Kimberly Kovach said...

Do your best, God will take care of the rest.

Kim said...

Well, my son is wearing GoodNights underpants right now. And, we got the cd with Iggy's adventures on it. Both of my boys LOVE the cd. The one thing that I tell my son on the mornings that he does wake up with a wet pull up on is, "It's not your fault". I believe that it's very important that he understands that and doesn't get discouraged.

Mary_fb said...

Celebrate your diversity every day. You know you're different. You know your difference makes you special. Whenever you are facing a hardship, think about what makes you special and put it forward. Be yourself!

internationalfreebies AT gmail.com

SavannahsSmiles said...

You are Amazing, and God calls you Beautiful!

Rene said...

God is right here --- with you!

Julia said...

Stay true to youself and never give up.

Sweetie said...

Nothing is ever so bad that a little grit, determination and faith can't get you through it!
You have a whole army on your side, even if you can't see it at the time, get going...someone will always have your back!

Anonymous said...

I Peter 5:7
Cast all your cares on Him for he cares for you

Debi said...

God is faithful.

Stacy M. said...

If you can dream it, you can do it! Walt Disney

Chicken Herder from Westville said...

You can become anything you want in your lifetime. It is there waiting for you to find it. It is not a dream but an reality, once you find it. And you will, because you are strong.

Anonymous said...

I love Jer. 29:11 and it is one of my favorite "go tos" during times of need but lately, God just seems to sing "Jesus Loves Me" in the voice of my 3 year old just when I need it most.
Thanks for the giveaway
Rebecca
5langfordatcomcastdotnet

Di said...

Just take the next step. You'll get there one step at a time.

lise said...

God's plan for you is the ultimate plan, so be flexible! It's in His time - so be patient.

Heather J. said...

As a mother of three teens, I often remind "my babies" that there is no failure.
For each each choice we make, there is a learning curve. A teaching moment if you will.
Take what you learn and grow.
Change, what you don't like but keep the process, as we use this is how we make the "right" choices down the road.
We choose to be happy and take what God gives us and make the most of it.

Lori said...

"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."

~ Eleanor Roosevelt

I have been so moved by your writings from your trip to Africa. I am amazed and that the beauty that is there among some of the most tragic circumstances and conditions.

I am sure that as a mother, wife, friend and writer that those experiences will change you, just as hopefully your visits have offered hope to those you met while you were there!

Tammy B said...

Just keep swimming!

Angie said...

God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

Sharilyn said...

"Ask Jesus to help you."
Would love to win. Thanks for all your blogs about Compassion. It has really caused us to consider and think. Unemployed right now, but still trying to find a way to make it happen. My kids are on board! Your blog posts are honest and inspiring. Thanks Kristin.

Karyn said...

BELIEVE!!!
In God above all, In His love for you, In the fact that He created you exactly the way He wanted you!

Amy said...

I (you) can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (you). Phil 4:13....does it get any better than that?

Anonymous said...

I'm always telling my 9-year-old -- it's not impossible, it's just a challenge! Just keep trying your best. Also, we tend to make challenging things funny. Make a joke and a lot of the tension will go away.

Beckie
nbakerfamily at yahoo dot com

Lisa Johnston said...

You can never be bad enough I love you less or good enough I love you more!

Lisa Johnston said...

You can never be bad enough I love you less or good enough I love you more!

Lisa Johnston said...

You can never be bad enough I love you less or good enough I love you more!

Jenny said...

Do your best, and God will take care of the rest. Truly believe that. Thanks for writing such inspiring posts. jadjenny at gmail dot com

Kendra aka The Meanest Momma said...

you are not alone, God is with you.

Marla said...

To not fear because God is always near. Knowing God is there with them, even though they can't see Him, has always helped my kids through troubles and scares. Thank you for the giveaway.

koinonia572001@yahoo.com

Jenna said...

A hurting heart is an opportunity for God to do a miracle

Jenn Calling Home said...

God is bigger than any fear -- that includes the boogey man, monsters under the bed, etc. -- real or imagined.

Bri said...

"The most authentic thing about us is our ability to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love, and to be greater than our suffering."

Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship said...

This will end; it can't last forever.

marky said...

You can give without love but you can't love without giving ;-)

Emily said...

No matter what, I am PROUD of you.

Eileen said...

Things don't always turn out as planned - but they always turn out.

Not every day is a good day - but you can make tomorrow better.

QAMom said...

Pray and ask God for help.

KatrinkaJane said...

Big at our house: I think I can, I think I can! (channeling The Little Engine That Could) This gets chanted whenever my 3½ year-old says in frustration, "Mom, I can't do it!" Hearing that line makes him grin and try again...and he usually succeeds!

«Oldest ‹Older   201 – 364 of 364   Newer› Newest»