tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post8485055088262592243..comments2023-11-28T04:49:21.046-06:00Comments on We Are THAT Family: Grace-Based Parenting Q & A GiveawayKristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02608199440254905212noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-73744693651420598252009-04-17T05:15:00.000-05:002009-04-17T05:15:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-41471394362587562662008-10-23T11:01:00.000-05:002008-10-23T11:01:00.000-05:00My son Gabriel is 20 months old and I have a hard ...My son Gabriel is 20 months old and I have a hard time getting him to follow simple commands, he just goes on babbling. For example: I'll ask him to bring me his cup, a toy, his diaper etc... and he knows what the objects are we "study" them every day with him. Maybe its an independant thing, he does what he wants when he wants? Communication is tough for a child under the age of 2, I guess. LOL<BR/><BR/>kristinia AT lovingheartmommy.com<BR/>http://www.lovingheartmommy.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09138310231864779525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-83594129548010421712008-10-16T09:40:00.000-05:002008-10-16T09:40:00.000-05:00Jenn has some good thoughts for Natalie, and I'd l...Jenn has some good thoughts for Natalie, and I'd like to add to that.<BR/>One those boundaries are set, the key for us has been to work *with* your child, listen carefully, say yes when you can, and be respectful in turn TO your child.<BR/>All of that has let the creativity and strong wills coexist, while keeping everyone safe and courteous.Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03381554731510359760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-46521637735600493022008-10-15T21:57:00.000-05:002008-10-15T21:57:00.000-05:00I would like to know... How to keep my 21 month ol...I would like to know... How to keep my 21 month old son from dumping his plate out onto the tray or throwing it onto the floor when he isn't interested in it anymore! <BR/>HELPPP!!!Groovewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03467472778881896716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-28548215237912587712008-10-15T21:37:00.000-05:002008-10-15T21:37:00.000-05:00How do you teach children that it's not important ...How do you teach children that it's not important who's the best dressed or most liked at school, but what they do for other people that's most important.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666487853154477376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-83672039714247945482008-10-15T21:23:00.000-05:002008-10-15T21:23:00.000-05:00I appreciate Dr Kimmel's approach to child raising...I appreciate Dr Kimmel's approach to child raising and would love to read this and his other books. I don't have one particular burning question to ask, but I am looking for help in handling the temper tantrums of my 2 year old with grace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-79490779243624080182008-10-15T19:00:00.000-05:002008-10-15T19:00:00.000-05:00My two year old has insane tantrums and a tenaciou...My two year old has insane tantrums and a tenacious nature. How do I help deal with the tantrums and channel the tenaciousness in a way that will pu him on the path to being a Godly man?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-63831766950476900542008-10-15T18:00:00.000-05:002008-10-15T18:00:00.000-05:00Christmas: This is an answer to those of you who ...Christmas: This is an answer to those of you who struggle with the balance between Christmas being about Christ and Christmas being fun and having presents. We don't stop decorating and having presents; in fact, we do more presents and more decorating, and it helps our kids to understand why we have Christmas. <BR/><BR/>The extra decorations are a few birthday decorations (with the proper colors and decor, of course; we're not THAT tacky!) for Jesus' birthday. The extra presents are for other children. The kids get to pick out something they want to buy for someone their age to take to a shelter or something because even though we like getting presents for Jesus' birthday there are other kids who don't get to. We'll also bake a birthday cake for Jesus and eat it with the other pies and such at the festivities. It doesn't mean the kids won't want stuff, but it puts it in perspective for them. Also, before we open a single present we read the story of Christ's birth from Luke 2. We just always point back to why we're celebrating. It's a bigger celebration than ever, but with meaning. Hope that helps!Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08069060626409051281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-31267229292813299112008-10-15T15:31:00.000-05:002008-10-15T15:31:00.000-05:00Hi, I would like to know what is the best way to h...Hi, I would like to know what is the best way to handle bad behavior in the vehicle? I've tried countless way to regain control and usually lose. It might be two of them fighting, it might be one of them having a fit cause they don't like where we are going or the route I've chosen or it could be just one of them picking on another.<BR/><BR/>I have a boy (3) and twin girls (2).<BR/><BR/>Since I have to have so many car seats and getting them in and out can be hassle, I've taken the middle row out of our van and put all three of them in the back row.<BR/><BR/>Thanks.Shannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06303680220706609009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-27298275809918546532008-10-15T15:24:00.000-05:002008-10-15T15:24:00.000-05:00I have a grumpy 2 year old who is whinny most days...I have a grumpy 2 year old who is whinny most days. I wonder if it's her nature. Help!Jessica D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10589759904157773429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-60705978149835258952008-10-15T15:04:00.000-05:002008-10-15T15:04:00.000-05:00How do I help my 6 year old son find the courage t...How do I help my 6 year old son find the courage to speak to adults, i.e ask/answer questions in safe settings where I am nearby? (Obviously this doesn't include talking to icky stranger types when I am not around)Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13493345976703025013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-35824696403442824712008-10-15T14:43:00.000-05:002008-10-15T14:43:00.000-05:00I'd love to see the answer to the last question......I'd love to see the answer to the last question...about the Christmas season. And also what they think of Halloween.<BR/><BR/>Thanks!Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13974591261986363186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-59796678694163960572008-10-15T14:31:00.000-05:002008-10-15T14:31:00.000-05:00Where's the line between being shy and being rude?...Where's the line between being shy and being rude? My 4 year old boy ducks his head or hides behind my leg when anyone speaks to him. We teach good manners at home. He says "please" and "thank you" but refuses to acknowledge other adults. My husband was shy growing up, but I want our son to come out of his shell enough to not be considered rude! I also don't want to punish a natural behavior that he can't help.aggiemomof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15887623861499300155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-30199836431968063102008-10-15T12:37:00.000-05:002008-10-15T12:37:00.000-05:00How can I gently rebuke my very sensitive daughter...How can I gently rebuke my very sensitive daughter without crushing her feelings?chandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06629917355707836493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-28087719518476544682008-10-15T10:43:00.000-05:002008-10-15T10:43:00.000-05:00Judy-I have heard a few times in different parenti...Judy-<BR/>I have heard a few times in different parenting workshops to have your children's friends over to your house so that you can a) welcome unsaved children into your home and b)see how they are playing, what kind of language is being used, etc. You can help monitor that if necessary. Maybe once a week invite your sons friends over so you can know them too.<BR/><BR/>Also, any behavior change in your son that he picks up from those friends will manifest soon enough. You'll know. Then you can talk with him about what kind of behavoir/language etc. your family expects/aims for. It's tricky because you don't want him to look down on other kids because of their behavoir (ie "our family is 'better' than yours" kind of thing), but its good to reinforce what your family is building with him.<BR/><BR/>Hope that's helpful!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-2685628068129866542008-10-15T10:20:00.000-05:002008-10-15T10:20:00.000-05:00How do I deal with my 4 year-old's attitude when s...How do I deal with my 4 year-old's attitude when she is uber grumpy and resembles a 14 year-old? I want her to have a happy heart and it's hard to turn around her bad moods. Help.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14267638517817280040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-55329218044944842142008-10-15T10:11:00.000-05:002008-10-15T10:11:00.000-05:00I would like to attempt to answer some of the ques...I would like to attempt to answer some of the questions from those who have stated they have strong willed children. Before I do that though I just want to say I'm not an expert. Just a mom with 4 children 3 of them boys! One of my sons tends to have a stronger will than the others. We struggled with this when he was younger. What we did was to set our family boundaries. We made sure they knew the rules of our home. For example, Speak kindly, keep belongings picked up, help when asked, etc. You can even write up a chart and have your children decorate it. Make your choice of rules simple and limit it to 3 to 5. Then once they understand what is expected of them, tell them what the discipline will be for a broken rule. Maybe a time-out or no T.V., extra chores around the house, etc. The key is consistency. They need to know the boundaries. What is acceptable behavior and what isn't. You will not break their spirit by doing this. It will give them the guidance they need. Children can't raise themselves. They need a firm guiding hand of a parent. One more thing when you have to discipline explain to them simply why they are receiving the correction. You may even have to police the who situation to make sure the discipline is obeyed. Parenting takes time, but the rewards are so tremendous!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02983747923969997503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-58428059923322531692008-10-15T10:09:00.000-05:002008-10-15T10:09:00.000-05:00My children are 10(boy), 8(girl), 5(girl), and 2(b...My children are 10(boy), 8(girl), 5(girl), and 2(boy) with another baby girl due in early December. Nearly every concern I have regarding the kids has been mentioned already (outside influences, discipline, sleep habits, etc). <BR/><BR/>I think my greatest challenge is dealing with well-meaning Grandparents who think we should let the kids do this or that and don't seem to respect the decisions that we've made for our children. I think that deep down they feel if we don't parent the way they did, that we must think that they "did it wrong". I feel that things are so different than they were 20 or 30 years ago, that they are just out of touch with the reality of the situation. <BR/><BR/>My mom is very persistent when it comes to her opinions on parenting, probably because she is still trying to parent me (at age 30). <BR/><BR/>My mother-in-law is a big time supporter of homeschooling (which we do) but doesn't see why I don't want my kid watching certain shows or playing with children that behave badly or kids that I've never even met. <BR/><BR/>Luckily I read a few articles in TEACH magazine today that supported my decisions, so I've sent them on to her.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00869387345889296652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-1389124323400986962008-10-15T09:51:00.000-05:002008-10-15T09:51:00.000-05:00Our strong willed son is very active and a total B...Our strong willed son is very active and a total BOY! He has a hard time with staying in bed and it has become a major fight most nights. I read on the answer page that it is "we" that have a problem with him staying in bed! I would also like some help with getting him to talk nicely when he gets upset. He yells and talks in such a grouchy voice.Amber D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05109359036453438923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-3868509269420745342008-10-15T09:41:00.000-05:002008-10-15T09:41:00.000-05:00I would like to know how to teach my children abou...I would like to know how to teach my children about servitude. I certainly feel I am modeling it, but I'm still getting lots of grumbles when asking for help around the house.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-30036218701623649552008-10-15T09:15:00.000-05:002008-10-15T09:15:00.000-05:00I have a 3 year old son (almost 4). We (husband, s...I have a 3 year old son (almost 4). We (husband, son and I) have been saying prayers at dinner and before bed for a while now, but just recently, my son just wants to rush through them. How do we communicate to him that prayer is an important thing and not something to rush through?amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16301741349689537850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-57339173224968060282008-10-15T08:58:00.000-05:002008-10-15T08:58:00.000-05:00My 9 year old son is very bright but has NO self-c...My 9 year old son is very bright but has NO self-confidence. Even when asked simple tasks such as "can you please set the table", I get a response "I-I-I think so". <BR/><BR/>I am definitely his cheerleader but how do I instill more self confidence in him?Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03580151983878981244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-481004847656387782008-10-15T08:01:00.000-05:002008-10-15T08:01:00.000-05:00I have a 3 year old son (almost 4)who is extremely...I have a 3 year old son (almost 4)who is extremely hyperactive. I know most 3 year olds have some degree of hyperactivity but my son's is definitely excessive. Everyone has an opinion about what I should or shouldn't do to help him. I, myself, am not sure what the best thing to think or do about it is. Also, I think the stress of it all is making me a not so good mom, which definitely does not help him.Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01913840100584605136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-40169934486083238122008-10-15T07:57:00.000-05:002008-10-15T07:57:00.000-05:00How do I teach my 13 y.o. girl to have a better at...How do I teach my 13 y.o. girl to have a better attitude and to do her best not her least?Sherry @ Lamp Unto My Feethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12997081715350310581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-33994779537900188512008-10-15T07:53:00.000-05:002008-10-15T07:53:00.000-05:00I would love to know how to teach my 9 year old ho...I would love to know how to teach my 9 year old how to have contentment and not always worry what everyone else has.Allyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01939866327797312326noreply@blogger.com