tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post7647213521228841948..comments2023-11-28T04:49:21.046-06:00Comments on We Are THAT Family: He Said/She Said (8): Rebuilding TrustKristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02608199440254905212noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-32432064926816427072010-03-28T11:48:59.848-05:002010-03-28T11:48:59.848-05:00I've had my issues of trust on and off with my...I've had my issues of trust on and off with my husband as well. I think the hardest part is that it never really goes away. It's like it's in the pit of stomach and occassionally rises to my throat.<br />Thank you for posting the series. When I make some time I will have to definitely give it a listen.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595549057172510815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-86117411264756200932010-03-28T04:40:32.700-05:002010-03-28T04:40:32.700-05:00McMommy, I find it interesting that the trust issu...McMommy, I find it interesting that the trust issue was something you extended to men in general but not women. I think you'd find that women do a lot of "cheating" and have other issues as well. I think it's more of a situation of trusting people in general rather than just men. Perhaps I am not approaching it the same way you are though. Thank you so much for this series I've appreciated it. <br />For ideas about He/She... child care/child rearing? Or home care?Melissa Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01506768105367855476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-51984662539059419652010-03-27T21:14:04.107-05:002010-03-27T21:14:04.107-05:00Thank you so much for doing this series, Kristen. ...Thank you so much for doing this series, Kristen. I am struggling with trust right now and this series has made me think and helped us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-92005958570333382982010-03-26T08:18:36.949-05:002010-03-26T08:18:36.949-05:00Thank you for your posts. Some of them were exactl...Thank you for your posts. Some of them were exactly what I needed to hear. I too have felt the pains of pornography. It is nice to know that my husband and I are not in this alone. I have been trying to find forgiveness for him. I know the trust will have to eventually happen to. It has been hard journey and will continue to be. Thank you for your words.momofonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08117649218699147183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-72782058238472454782010-03-25T11:44:27.397-05:002010-03-25T11:44:27.397-05:00Thank you so much for doing this series. It's...Thank you so much for doing this series. It's been great to see how you guys have overcome this in your marriage. When I was struggling with some things myself, I took the time to talk to my church leader about it, after confessing to my husband. He gave me a great pamphlet called, "Let Virtue Garnish your Thoughts". I'm pretty sure it was originally intended for the youth but it was a great help. This series you guys have done has also helped a lot and strengthened my resolve to keep conquering the temptations in my life.<br /><br />Thank you!<br /><br />here's a link to the pamphlet if you are interested in taking a look.<br />http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=67852ce2b446c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&locale=0&sourceId=704a862384d20110VgnVCM100000176f620a____Sharonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18220239368725678342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-362739259236065562010-03-25T10:04:30.470-05:002010-03-25T10:04:30.470-05:00I think it is incredibly difficult to start trusti...I think it is incredibly difficult to start trusting again, and agree completely with the quote you added to your post. It does take two. <br /><br />My husband confessed his pornography addiction to me about 8 years ago now, and while we don't deal with it on a daily basis, there are still times when I know he's on the computer (for work, looking at sports scores, etc)that I find myself wondering if that's what he's really doing. We still talk about it, openly and honestly, and with me purposely not being accusatory in my tone. We now have two boys (a third on the way) and I struggle to find a balance between letting them know women are beautiful and being highly offended that sports on TV are inundated with scantily clad women. Thankfully, my kids are young, but I really don't want them to struggle with what we've struggled with as a married couple. Thanks so much for this series.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08933444348029061497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8095068418828488278.post-69908469693219798762010-03-25T09:19:38.413-05:002010-03-25T09:19:38.413-05:00Thanks for doing this series. It has been helpful...Thanks for doing this series. It has been helpful to so many people. Today's tips on specific things the husband could do to rebuild trust was great. My husband has done most of the things that were mentioned and they were not only helpful for me in trusting him again, but I think they were a great tool for him in learning how to be transparent after lying and hiding things had become so natural for him. <br /><br />Rae<br />www.hopeforthejourneyblog.comRaehttp://www.hopeforthejourneyblog.comnoreply@blogger.com